Question about waiting for sex

Yes, it would be our first time having sex. We are both virgins

I would like you to know that you'll remember your first time for your entire life.
If I were you, I would save it for someone special. It doesn't necessarily have to be after marriage but just make sure she's the right girl for you.

I really love this girl I'm with... She's older than me and very mature.. I can honestly see myself marrying her .~.

I really love this girl I'm with... She's older than me and very mature.. I can honestly see myself marrying her .~.

You're too young to be thinking about all that honestly, You say that now but just wait a while before doing anything over the top.

I am Irish-Catholic, firm in the faith. God forgives.

Had sex with both my ex, who was a Roman-Catholic, and my current girlfriend who is diehard Presbyterian.

Religion aside, love is love my friend.

I say if you choose to wait based on the principal that you wish to engage her intellectually then by all means bro go for it. I did that with my first fiancee, for a year we didn't do anything it was THE best start of a relationship i had had up to that point and even so to this day. It was a great decision to wait, she and i were not virgins when we met but we decided to engage one another mentally, VERY GOOD PLAN.

Well.. me a last year would not agree with waiting at all, I regret losing my virginity to this one girl which wasn't really love.. I just thought I loved her.

Anyway, now i'm 14 and I guess I matured a lot over a few years. I am believed to be 20 due to my height, looks and maturity. So if this is how I'm going to be when the age for maturing to be finished then my opinion would be yes, I would want to wait. I think getting straight into sex would be horrible, you need to be more of one with your partner enable to have true passionate sex. For most people, this is marriage.

I don't necessarily agree that you have to wait until marriage, you should just wait until you and your partner are ready.

I just hate when guys use girls for sex.. I do not want to be that person for her.. I want to be a partner, someone she can trust and love.. Making our relationship about us, rather than sex, will strengthen our unity...

I just hate when guys use girls for sex.. I do not want to be that person for her.. I want to be a partner, someone she can trust and love.. Making our relationship about us, rather than sex, will strengthen our unity...

Girls use guys all the time, It is really not a gender specific thing.

I just hate when guys use girls for sex.. I do not want to be that person for her.. I want to be a partner, someone she can trust and love.. Making our relationship about us, rather than sex, will strengthen our unity...

Girls use guys all the time, It is really not a gender specific thing.

Exactly, males can be violated just as much as girls when it comes to forceable sex.
With that aside, once again, don't make the mistake of getting hurt so young. Take it slow.