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04-06-2014, 02:56 AM
(04-06-2014, 02:38 AM)Bonnie Wrote:(04-06-2014, 02:04 AM)Zenocide Wrote: I have never experience it myself since I don't show favoritism, But I do get some girls to like me somehow.
I don't show favoritism to anyone because favorites show signs of weakness to that person. That's how must girls that I know get whatever they want and I lose friends like that. I may be in a good mood and I do hang out with you but I won't be on you side everytime.
Edit: You should add two more polls saying "My Personal Experience Yes" and "My Personal Experience No"
Well, it's not exactly "favoritism" per say, it's not like you go, "Oh, this person is my favorite. I'm gonna put them on a pedestal and pay no attention to anyone else" yeah that's not really how it works with Clyde and I.
I don't think in any case that's how it should work, i don't see any favoritism in my eyes, but everyone is entitled to their own opinions ! =)
04-06-2014, 03:03 AM
(04-06-2014, 02:38 AM)Bonnie Wrote:(04-06-2014, 02:04 AM)Zenocide Wrote: I have never experience it myself since I don't show favoritism, But I do get some girls to like me somehow.
I don't show favoritism to anyone because favorites show signs of weakness to that person. That's how must girls that I know get whatever they want and I lose friends like that. I may be in a good mood and I do hang out with you but I won't be on you side everytime.
Edit: You should add two more polls saying "My Personal Experience Yes" and "My Personal Experience No"
Well, it's not exactly "favoritism" per say, it's not like you go, "Oh, this person is my favorite. I'm gonna put them on a pedestal and pay no attention to anyone else" yeah that's not really how it works with Clyde and I.
Favoritism is in love due you you siding and paying more attention to one person than everyone else. The only thing I have that changes is Respect. You either show respect or you don't. I always show respect to everyone unless they disrepect me.
04-06-2014, 03:32 AM
(04-06-2014, 03:03 AM)Zenocide Wrote:Disrespect **(04-06-2014, 02:38 AM)Bonnie Wrote: Well, it's not exactly "favoritism" per say, it's not like you go, "Oh, this person is my favorite. I'm gonna put them on a pedestal and pay no attention to anyone else" yeah that's not really how it works with Clyde and I.
Favoritism is in love due you you siding and paying more attention to one person than everyone else. The only thing I have that changes is Respect. You either show respect or you don't. I always show respect to everyone unless they disrepect me.
Nothing changes when I am in a relationship besides sleeping arrangements, I do not change anything about me, my hobbies, what i do.
04-07-2014, 08:54 PM
(04-06-2014, 02:56 AM)KO Animal Wrote:(04-06-2014, 02:38 AM)Bonnie Wrote: Well, it's not exactly "favoritism" per say, it's not like you go, "Oh, this person is my favorite. I'm gonna put them on a pedestal and pay no attention to anyone else" yeah that's not really how it works with Clyde and I.
I don't think in any case that's how it should work, i don't see any favoritism in my eyes, but everyone is entitled to their own opinions ! =)
Oh, definitely! Everyone's opinion differs in some form or another. (: I wish people would just accept that and move on, ya know?
(04-06-2014, 03:03 AM)Zenocide Wrote:(04-06-2014, 02:38 AM)Bonnie Wrote: Well, it's not exactly "favoritism" per say, it's not like you go, "Oh, this person is my favorite. I'm gonna put them on a pedestal and pay no attention to anyone else" yeah that's not really how it works with Clyde and I.
Favoritism is in love due you you siding and paying more attention to one person than everyone else. The only thing I have that changes is Respect. You either show respect or you don't. I always show respect to everyone unless they disrepect me.
Well, when you're in love with someone, it's natural to pay more attention to them. But the people who have a good head on their shoulders and have respect for others, they don't ignore everyone else for that one person.
(04-06-2014, 03:32 AM)KO Animal Wrote:(04-06-2014, 03:03 AM)Zenocide Wrote: Favoritism is in love due you you siding and paying more attention to one person than everyone else. The only thing I have that changes is Respect. You either show respect or you don't. I always show respect to everyone unless they disrepect me.Disrespect **
Nothing changes when I am in a relationship besides sleeping arrangements, I do not change anything about me, my hobbies, what i do.
The only thing that changed when Clyde and I got together was the fact that I wasn't single anymore. :P
(04-07-2014, 01:15 AM)Cognition Wrote: It's not love at first sight, its "lust at first sight".
That is SO true for a lot of people. Lust takes over one's mind, convincing them that it's love, when it's not. Love is amazing, but love is also really, really hard. You've gotta fight for what you love.
04-07-2014, 09:43 PM
(04-06-2014, 03:03 AM)Zenocide Wrote: Favoritism is in love due you you siding and paying more attention to one person than everyone else. The only thing I have that changes is Respect. You either show respect or you don't. I always show respect to everyone unless they disrepect me.
Well, when you're in love with someone, it's natural to pay more attention to them. But the people who have a good head on their shoulders and have respect for others, they don't ignore everyone else for that one person.
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When I had my first girlfriend, I would side with her more that usually and it came to the point where she wanted everything done her way. I tried to explain they she won't get everything her way and also she needs to respect my opinion and my responses. This is why I don't show favoritism. I had 3 more girlfriends after her and all three respected me and my opinions.
Also it's been a while since you posted on here how are you?
04-08-2014, 12:37 AM
(04-07-2014, 01:15 AM)Cognition Wrote: It's not love at first sight, its "lust at first sight".This I think is very well put,
(04-07-2014, 08:54 PM)Bonnie Wrote:(04-06-2014, 02:56 AM)KO Animal Wrote: I don't think in any case that's how it should work, i don't see any favoritism in my eyes, but everyone is entitled to their own opinions ! =)
Oh, definitely! Everyone's opinion differs in some form or another. (: I wish people would just accept that and move on, ya know?
(04-06-2014, 03:03 AM)Zenocide Wrote: Favoritism is in love due you you siding and paying more attention to one person than everyone else. The only thing I have that changes is Respect. You either show respect or you don't. I always show respect to everyone unless they disrepect me.
Well, when you're in love with someone, it's natural to pay more attention to them. But the people who have a good head on their shoulders and have respect for others, they don't ignore everyone else for that one person.
(04-06-2014, 03:32 AM)KO Animal Wrote: Disrespect **
Nothing changes when I am in a relationship besides sleeping arrangements, I do not change anything about me, my hobbies, what i do.
The only thing that changed when Clyde and I got together was the fact that I wasn't single anymore. :P
(04-07-2014, 01:15 AM)Cognition Wrote: It's not love at first sight, its "lust at first sight".
That is SO true for a lot of people. Lust takes over one's mind, convincing them that it's love, when it's not. Love is amazing, but love is also really, really hard. You've gotta fight for what you love.
Oh I know oh to well, you make a valid point, no two people are going to have the exact opinions I think, and I also think that it is great that we all get together share, argue and agree our opinions!
04-08-2014, 01:04 AM
No lie I skipped a few of those because they were long but ily guys lol
I agree with this.
I mean you could look at someone and go wow I love this person, but you don't know it's really love until later when you get to know the person.
I mean it could happen I guess. You could look at someone and know that's who you want to spend the rest of your life with...unfortunately though, the other person might not think the same.
I thought this had happened to me. Turns out I was 100% wrong. Lol
(04-06-2014, 01:30 AM)Bonnie Wrote: I believe it exists, yes. I mean, you might not realize it at the very moment, but later you can realize "holy shit, it was like love at first sight."
I agree with this.
I mean you could look at someone and go wow I love this person, but you don't know it's really love until later when you get to know the person.
I mean it could happen I guess. You could look at someone and know that's who you want to spend the rest of your life with...unfortunately though, the other person might not think the same.
I thought this had happened to me. Turns out I was 100% wrong. Lol
04-08-2014, 02:19 AM
(04-08-2014, 01:04 AM)Tauriel Wrote: No lie I skipped a few of those because they were long but ily guys lol
(04-06-2014, 01:30 AM)Bonnie Wrote: I believe it exists, yes. I mean, you might not realize it at the very moment, but later you can realize "holy shit, it was like love at first sight."
I agree with this.
I mean you could look at someone and go wow I love this person, but you don't know it's really love until later when you get to know the person.
I mean it could happen I guess. You could look at someone and know that's who you want to spend the rest of your life with...unfortunately though, the other person might not think the same.
I thought this had happened to me. Turns out I was 100% wrong. Lol
It is person experiences that help us better understand and believe or disbelieve these types of things
04-08-2014, 02:22 AM
(04-07-2014, 09:43 PM)Zenocide Wrote:(04-06-2014, 03:03 AM)Zenocide Wrote: Favoritism is in love due you you siding and paying more attention to one person than everyone else. The only thing I have that changes is Respect. You either show respect or you don't. I always show respect to everyone unless they disrepect me.
Well, when you're in love with someone, it's natural to pay more attention to them. But the people who have a good head on their shoulders and have respect for others, they don't ignore everyone else for that one person.
When I had my first girlfriend, I would side with her more that usually and it came to the point where she wanted everything done her way. I tried to explain they she won't get everything her way and also she needs to respect my opinion and my responses. This is why I don't show favoritism. I had 3 more girlfriends after her and all three respected me and my opinions.
Also it's been a while since you posted on here how are you?
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Yes, mutual respect is absolutely necessary. (: If you're referring to me, I'm well! How're you, Sir Zenocide?
(04-08-2014, 12:37 AM)KO Animal Wrote:(04-07-2014, 01:15 AM)Cognition Wrote: It's not love at first sight, its "lust at first sight".This I think is very well put,
(04-07-2014, 08:54 PM)Bonnie Wrote: Oh, definitely! Everyone's opinion differs in some form or another. (: I wish people would just accept that and move on, ya know?
Well, when you're in love with someone, it's natural to pay more attention to them. But the people who have a good head on their shoulders and have respect for others, they don't ignore everyone else for that one person.
The only thing that changed when Clyde and I got together was the fact that I wasn't single anymore. :P
That is SO true for a lot of people. Lust takes over one's mind, convincing them that it's love, when it's not. Love is amazing, but love is also really, really hard. You've gotta fight for what you love.
Oh I know oh to well, you make a valid point, no two people are going to have the exact opinions I think, and I also think that it is great that we all get together share, argue and agree our opinions!
Yes! That's one of the many reasons I love PF. I have great friends here, AND we can have an intellectual conversation and listen to each other.
(04-08-2014, 01:04 AM)Tauriel Wrote: No lie I skipped a few of those because they were long but ily guys lol
(04-06-2014, 01:30 AM)Bonnie Wrote: I believe it exists, yes. I mean, you might not realize it at the very moment, but later you can realize "holy shit, it was like love at first sight."
I agree with this.
I mean you could look at someone and go wow I love this person, but you don't know it's really love until later when you get to know the person.
I mean it could happen I guess. You could look at someone and know that's who you want to spend the rest of your life with...unfortunately though, the other person might not think the same.
I thought this had happened to me. Turns out I was 100% wrong. Lol
Yeah, sometimes we go on talking sprees. We should probably do a TLTR every now & then. Haha Yeah, I totally agree. Only, with me, the love at first sight thing hit me later, after I had already met him. It's.. an interesting story.[/color/
(04-08-2014, 02:19 AM)KO Animal Wrote:(04-08-2014, 01:04 AM)Tauriel Wrote: No lie I skipped a few of those because they were long but ily guys lol
I agree with this.
I mean you could look at someone and go wow I love this person, but you don't know it's really love until later when you get to know the person.
I mean it could happen I guess. You could look at someone and know that's who you want to spend the rest of your life with...unfortunately though, the other person might not think the same.
I thought this had happened to me. Turns out I was 100% wrong. Lol
It is person experiences that help us better understand and believe or disbelieve these types of things
YES! I love how you phrased that![/color]