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03-07-2014, 04:59 AM
Did anyone here ever deal with bullies?
How did you feel, what was your response?
I, myself, was a bit more on the neutral side.
I was a bully in elementary school, to be honest.
However, I was young and naive.
I would easily take back my actions.
I honestly wonder how the brain reacts and creates bullying.
How did you feel, what was your response?
I, myself, was a bit more on the neutral side.
I was a bully in elementary school, to be honest.
However, I was young and naive.
I would easily take back my actions.
I honestly wonder how the brain reacts and creates bullying.
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03-07-2014, 05:02 AM
Earlier this year I got panic/anxiety attacks about everyday.. I'm homeschooled now because of it, I had to get away from that place.
04-08-2014, 04:13 AM
I was bullied for sooooo long. From elementary school, all throughout middle school, and all the way to junior year of high school.
Elementary and middle school wasn't really... that bad. I mean, it was, it did a lot to my emotions and self-confidence and stuff.
But high school was the worst. I was beaten up almost every other day, I was harassed, stalked around school, followed home. I've been ripped out of a tree by my backpack.
It was... really bad. (If anyone wants to talk more about this, pm me).
I don't tolerate bullying. If I know someone is being bullied, and I can do something about it (legally, of course) then I will do whatever I have to. If I can't do anything, I'm one to sit and stew for about 10 minutes then release my anger by throwing things around my room.
Elementary and middle school wasn't really... that bad. I mean, it was, it did a lot to my emotions and self-confidence and stuff.
But high school was the worst. I was beaten up almost every other day, I was harassed, stalked around school, followed home. I've been ripped out of a tree by my backpack.
It was... really bad. (If anyone wants to talk more about this, pm me).
I don't tolerate bullying. If I know someone is being bullied, and I can do something about it (legally, of course) then I will do whatever I have to. If I can't do anything, I'm one to sit and stew for about 10 minutes then release my anger by throwing things around my room.
04-08-2014, 05:02 AM
I was never one who got bullied, although a lot of the kids I was friends with did, and I guess maybe in a way I bullied the bullies if that makes sense, I didn't stand for it at all one bit, maybe could have dealt with it a little better, but in my eyes if you were picking on someone you needed your ass kicked and I was the little careless guy who had no problem doing it!
04-08-2014, 05:20 AM
(04-08-2014, 05:02 AM)KO Animal Wrote: I was never one who got bullied, although a lot of the kids I was friends with did, and I guess maybe in a way I bullied the bullies if that makes sense, I didn't stand for it at all one bit, maybe could have dealt with it a little better, but in my eyes if you were picking on someone you needed your ass kicked and I was the little careless guy who had no problem doing it!
I'm glad you were never bullied. It's really awful to go through. It does a lot to your mind, and it obviously does a lot to your body if it's physical bullying. There have been times where I hear someone is being bullied, and I just want to punch that bully in the face, but I know it won't really help solve the problem that is bullying. If anything, I'd want to prove to the bully how well the person they're bullying can turn out to be. And where the bully might possibly be in the future.
The main guy that bullied me is now a high school drop out who is working at McDonalds. I, on the other hand, am in college, getting my Psychology degree to become a criminal profiler.
(:
04-08-2014, 05:25 AM
(04-08-2014, 05:20 AM)Bonnie Wrote:(04-08-2014, 05:02 AM)KO Animal Wrote: I was never one who got bullied, although a lot of the kids I was friends with did, and I guess maybe in a way I bullied the bullies if that makes sense, I didn't stand for it at all one bit, maybe could have dealt with it a little better, but in my eyes if you were picking on someone you needed your ass kicked and I was the little careless guy who had no problem doing it!
I'm glad you were never bullied. It's really awful to go through. It does a lot to your mind, and it obviously does a lot to your body if it's physical bullying. There have been times where I hear someone is being bullied, and I just want to punch that bully in the face, but I know it won't really help solve the problem that is bullying. If anything, I'd want to prove to the bully how well the person they're bullying can turn out to be. And where the bully might possibly be in the future.
The main guy that bullied me is now a high school drop out who is working at McDonalds. I, on the other hand, am in college, getting my Psychology degree to become a criminal profiler.
(:
That is sincerely impressive, good for you !! But I mean people never listen to reason from my experience anyways so I had to do some ass kicking threw out school lol
04-08-2014, 05:39 AM
(04-08-2014, 05:25 AM)KO Animal Wrote: That is sincerely impressive, good for you !! But I mean people never listen to reason from my experience anyways so I had to do some ass kicking threw out school lol
Well that makes sense. Let's just say I wasn't very... intimidating in high school. Actually, my anxiety was so bad I could barely talk to anyone except my close friends. It was... a dark time in my life. But! I hope to help others through it since I experienced it so intensely.
04-08-2014, 07:13 PM
(04-08-2014, 05:39 AM)Bonnie Wrote:(04-08-2014, 05:25 AM)KO Animal Wrote: That is sincerely impressive, good for you !! But I mean people never listen to reason from my experience anyways so I had to do some ass kicking threw out school lol
Well that makes sense. Let's just say I wasn't very... intimidating in high school. Actually, my anxiety was so bad I could barely talk to anyone except my close friends. It was... a dark time in my life. But! I hope to help others through it since I experienced it so intensely.
That's okay thou, you just need to look at it as, althou it was hell in high school, in a sense maybe it was them that made you the strong independent person you are today!
04-08-2014, 08:06 PM
(04-08-2014, 07:13 PM)KO Animal Wrote:(04-08-2014, 05:39 AM)Bonnie Wrote: Well that makes sense. Let's just say I wasn't very... intimidating in high school. Actually, my anxiety was so bad I could barely talk to anyone except my close friends. It was... a dark time in my life. But! I hope to help others through it since I experienced it so intensely.
That's okay thou, you just need to look at it as, althou it was hell in high school, in a sense maybe it was them that made you the strong independent person you are today!
Yes! I am stronger because of them. I also feel that I can definitely help people who are being bullied. Ya know?
04-08-2014, 08:22 PM
(04-08-2014, 08:06 PM)Bonnie Wrote:(04-08-2014, 07:13 PM)KO Animal Wrote: That's okay thou, you just need to look at it as, althou it was hell in high school, in a sense maybe it was them that made you the strong independent person you are today!
Yes! I am stronger because of them. I also feel that I can definitely help people who are being bullied. Ya know?
Yes I really do know, that's basically what I've been doing with all my free time helping those who go threw the same things I have!